You know how presidents feel compelled to address the nation about the state of the union? How far we have to go to achieve social justice, universal healthcare, and global warming? I feel the same way about turning 50. Compelled to share my wisdom, plead for unity in my house of representatives, and set a course for the next few years. Turning 50 feels quite different than the other landmark years. I have no urge to get a tattoo, move to Nepal, or take up paddle boarding. I still may do all of those things but in a more peaceful manner. Out with the wolf on the bicep, in with the OM mantra so I can still chant when I lose my memory.
It's nice to be past the mid-life crisis point and on to the spiritual crisis point in my trajectory. My big move will not be to dye my hair, pierce some parts, and lose a few pounds. My big move is to continue to move inward. Talk less, judge less, care less. Just realizing for the first time the connection between "careless" and "care less". Pay attention to subtleties . Luckily, I married well for that one.
Appreciate the mortality of my parents, and everyone. It is all so fleeting.
At 50, I'm hanging on to the physical side of myself because I have young kids and because I want to keep moving forward. I have learned that I can still run with the Navy ROTC guys for the first mile in a 5K and then I will nurse a groin injury for 2 months after that fleeting 7:45. 2 months and counting, actually. Pace yourselves:)
These are the things I think my younger friends need to find: yoga, a supportive bra, a favorite poet, good pressed powder, a compassionate pediatrician (if applicable) and one good joke. It just has to be funny to you.......I was addicted to the Hokey Pokey, but I turned it all around.
So this is me at 50. Proud of who I am, where I'm from and most of all....who I love. Peace to you all!